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|Posted: Dec. 02 2008,2:35 pm
|Quote (Lady_Satanica @ Oct. 09 2008,11:34am)|
|Hello Everyone, I have been away for awhile, due to the grief and mourning of my mothers death, which just passed on July 25th of this past summer. Anyway i am not taking it well, and its not getting any better either. |
I have been trying to call my Mothers Spirit to come to me either in a Manifestion, or through a Dream. I have been praying and calling her name, but i am not having any luck. I also tried calling my dad who used to come to me before but he has stopped quite a while now. Many so called psychic mediums claim that they can talk to the dead, and also others who claim that they can as well.
Does anyone know how i may get my Mothers or Fathers Spirit to Appear to me, either in the waking world, or in the Dream world . Because i have been trying now for almost the past 3 months with no luck. I tried praying, Meditation, burning Candels and insence, i even have an ancestral altar set up, but so far no luck, can anyone help ??
I am sorry for your loss, but I am compelled to share this with you. Forgive me if I am out of line, or if I have interpreted things incorrectly. I have often seen a similarity with those who have lost someone as well as those who I've been called to assist in their letting go and passing on. Those who are passing on are usually more worried about the loved ones they are leaving behind than they are about what's going to happen to them.
And those who are left behind (aside from the grief of losing a loved one) often agonize because there was something they always wanted to say and never said it. If you are one of those people, then there IS a way you can get the message to her without her re-appearing to you. Simply get a candle, doesn't matter what kind or color, use whatever makes you most comfortable.
Turn off the TV, the phone, the lights. Make sure you will not be bothered by anything until you are finished. Sit comfortably in front of the candle, and light the candle. Focus solely on the flame of the candle, and address your mother. Speak out loud, tell her what you want to say. Tell her that you love her, that you miss her, tell her you're sorry, tell her whatever you want her to know. When you're finished, then take a few moments to breathe and come back to yourself. Blow out the candle and go about your day.
Know that she will get the message. Your mother has already moved on, but her soul, her spirit will get the message. You can do this with anyone who's alive or passed on. The healing effects for both involved are enormous, but please don't use this to harm someone, for you're affecting yourself just as much as the person you're speaking to.
I did this with my father, who had abused me as a child. He'd had a heart attack and they thought he was going to die. Fearing that I'd never get the chance to say what I wanted to say, and knowing he was too far away to reach (across the country) I used this technique. I fell asleep in front of the candle, completely exhausting myself in my attempt to purge and ultimately forgive. I poured out all the rage and anger until there was nothing left but love and forgiveness. And then I forgave him and let it go.
The next morning, I was told that he had a 'miraculous' recovery. He still had to have surgery, but it wasn't nearly as bad as the tests had shown. I, however, felt much better. I actually lost 20 pounds of physical weight in that day's time. I had been carrying around so much that I should have let go of a long time ago.
So yes, this is a very simple thing to do but also very effective. If what you ultimately want is to speak with her, then simply send her a message and know that she WILL recieve it. Perhaps then you can begin that road to healing.
Again, I am sorry for your loss.
Edited by Jharma on Dec. 02 2008,2:36 pm
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